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I took my glasses off today. I didn't wear them, I felt a little rebellious, and a little naked. It felt good - yes everything a little blurry
but also not enlarged (glasses, well mine - see below - are essentially magnifying glasses) so the world seemed more normal, smaller - and equally I felt bigger, taller. And also somehow more normal, stable and balanced. And relaxed, more 'me' weirdly. I first noticed this when I was having trouble with balance and judging distances while snowboarding, cycling and skateboarding - taking the glasses off helped, but the blurriness was not ideal moving fast on a board/bike. I got some contact lenses which were better . They are closer to the eye and require less magnification to correct the focus , but I have never really got along with putting them in and taking them out. Nor wearing them for that matter, kind of irritating all round. But it was nevertheless the contacts that made me realise how much I disliked wearing glasses. (please see disclaimer below).
I am not advising taking
them off for important activities - not for driving, extreme sports, reading, form-filling and so on, but for just walking around, having a coffee, catching the bus. Keep them with you of course but slip them off and slip them in your pocket if you can get by a little blurred for a while. They are there if you need them. You see I have never been happy since I was told to wear them all the time, a 'weaker' pair for long distance (driving, daily stuff) and a stronger pair for reading - computer work necessitated my first glasses some years back. We are talking about magnifications from 2. 5 to 3.75 - my eyes are also slightly different - but this is the general range of correction - quite strong , quite a significant effect in terms of clarity, yes, but also the enlargement distortion that comes with the correction. And its that magnification that is one of my major dislikes. And then there are the glasses themselves ..
I have wondered for some time if wearing glasses affects social interaction. Most people don't wear them. Many do of course, but I really have considered if they affect how people see you. <span>See me. And maybe how I see myself ... </span>Are people subconsciously "glassist" ? Yes, just a couple of plastic lenses over your eyes but equally very evident and somehow significant. If you wear glasses, look in a mirror and take them off - how different you look. Likewise if you have a loved one or friend do the same - with and without the specs is more remarkable than it somehow should be. And so during my first day I am wondering if maybe people react to me differently without them, or maybe, and in addition, I am seeing myself differently too.
I am not sure but I think I have hyperopia / presbyopia with some astigmatism - essentially nothing is clear - near or far. I need stronger glasses for reading/computers, and the last few years a permanent less strong set for everything else ie. driving, shopping and general day-to-day. Annoyingly there is a middle-distance around 1-2 meters away where neither pair I own are correct - shopping glasses I need. I have tried progressive lenses but never got on with their requirement to look through a particular band of the lens depending on the situation and level of correction needed.
Disclaimer - This is a discussion for mutual intellectual advancement. It is not advice and is without professional sanction. I am not a professional. You should wear your prescribed eyewear as advised by your medical specialist and always in situations where you are responsible for your and others safety. If you choose to experiment with alternative eye correction please do so only when it is safe to do so and always away from vehicles, machines, animals and children, and never when there is a risk of endangerment to yourself or others.